This is probably going to be a weird one. Try to be kind.
I have an almost 11 month old. He’s always been a pretty poor sleeper. I’m still breastfeeding. Until recently he was only waking twice in the night for a feed which I found acceptable.
We have a routine whereby he naps in his cot during the day, he goes in his cot at night for the beginning part and once he wakes up after I have gone to bed I bring him in with me for the rest of the night.
This worked well, we co-slept completely from around 12 weeks, then after 6 months I decided he should get used to sleeping away from me sometimes and we moved to that arrangement. It suits me because it means I don’t have to get up to him in the night.
Recently I’ve been feeling really anxious when I’m sleeping away from him. I can’t fall asleep when he’s in his room. My partner has picked me up a few times where I’ve gone to get him when I’m going to bed rather than him waking. I think to myself I must be mad but I’m just happier when I know he’s close by.
I guess my concerns are mostly silly, like the baby monitor stopping working and not hearing him, something happening to him in the night, etc.
I have been diagnosed with PTSD following him being very poorly in early infancy, however I’ve got a baby monitor and I use an owlet, so it would alarm if anything were to be wrong with him. The alarm unit is next to my bed and is extremely loud.
In general I feel better than I have previously. I’ve had and continue to have therapy, he is a healthy happy boy, albeit with a few ongoing medical issues.
Where has this come from?
It’s definitely me and not DS - he is pretty laid back. Given the choice he would sleep in my bed with me but equally he’d go in the cot without fuss.
Can I get past this?
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Jellytottheif · 19/10/2020 21:48
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