I'm hoping someone has advice on my DD's sleep, I'm feeling pretty lost as to how to deal with her constant waking at night.
She's 10 months, always been a bad sleeper (both naps and nighttime) and can't self settle. She's been waking 5/6/7 times a night and I have to feed her to sleep each time. I spoke to a HV this week who said I had to encourage her to fall asleep in her cot (and actually someone on here gave some good advice on that previously). We've been trying to do this for a few nights, and whilst she can do it at bedtime (although it takes 30-60 minutes) and for subsequent wakes, she is then waking at about 1am and just can't seem to get back to sleep. She moans and cries in her cot, will seemingly fall asleep, but then wakes up within seconds and starts moaning again. She will at most sleep for 10 minutes before waking back up. The last three nights she's been awake in this way for almost two hours, just moaning/crying and moving around in her cot. All nights I've relented and fed her, just because I'm so shattered. She's then slept for three hours (the max she ever sleeps).
I don't know what to do for the best. I don't know why she can't stay asleep. She is obviously tired. I don't know if she has such a strong feed to sleep association that she can't sleep without it once she's past that first portion of the night. I just feel like I have no idea what to try next. And I'm just so tired! Any advice welcome!
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10 month old really struggling to stay asleep
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BirdIsland · 12/10/2020 15:42
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