Hi all,
Hoping to get some advice about my daughter - I’m really worried about her and slightly in despair because we’ve encountered some new problems with her sleep in the last few days that just seem to be getting worse and worse and I can’t seem to do anything to help her.
To give a bit of background Aryana was full term and has been healthy since birth and was breastfed on demand. She now has 3 meals a day and is still breastfed. She has always had night feeds and has never been a great napper. She sleeps in a cot in our room. We make the room dark and use white noise.
We first started getting problems with her nighttime sleep when I started trying to wean her off the night feeds. She was ok while i was reducing the amount of milk but when I tried to not feed at all we just found that nothing settled her and when she finally did fall asleep she would wake again 5/10 minutes later, and this could happen multiple times. We then went on holiday last week and she got a cold and cough so we did end up picking her up to comfort her and sometimes feeding her to sleep because she was so distressed.
I did expect some chaos when we got back home because we didn’t have any kind of routine on holiday but her sleep has never been this bad, even when she was a newborn. At first she started having a wake up at around 3am where she would cry pretty much inconsolably for over an hour before we could get her back to sleep. Yesterday things started to get much worse, she did go down for her naps quite well but they were only 20/30 mins long and even though she was still tired I couldn’t get her back to sleep. Then last night my husband put her to bed and she was properly asleep but then woke up after 5 minutes and was crying, and this carried on for about an hour and a half with both of us trying to shush her, sing to her, leave her for a bit, etc.She would fall asleep for 1-5 minutes but then wake and cry. Once she did fall asleep she then woke up again 3 more times after only about 30min of sleep each time. I did a dream feed at about 10pm and she had 100ml of expressed milk. She then had these long inconsolable crying wake ups again at 1am, 2.45am and 5.15am. At one point we were awake for 2.5 hours and for most of that she was crying.
Today it was the same trying to get her to have her morning nap - she did fall asleep but woke up after five minutes, crying, and I could not put her back to sleep.
I feel like we’ve ruled out the most important needs already - she can’t be hungry every time, her nappies weren’t dirty when we changed them, I dressed her according to the recommended grobag chart for the temperature of the room and I don’t think she could be in pain with teething or anything because she is totally fine during the day, and the one night we gave her calpol for something else it didn’t make any difference to her sleep.
I know there can be a lot going on at this age with sleep regressions and growth spurts and teething and things and I don’t necessarily expect her to sleep through the night but it doesn’t seem right that she should be so upset for so long. She seems really angry in the cot thrashing her arms around and arching her back but i can’t work out what is wrong. Even if we give in and pick her up she calms down a bit but still grizzles. And I just feel that once she’s properly asleep she shouldn’t keep waking up every few minutes? It just seems like something could be wrong.
She seems to be such a happy baby during the day, she gets lots of interaction and stimulation and fresh air and exercise. My husband and i have both done so much research but just feel at a loss as to how to help her at the moment.
I would really appreciate any guidance so I can make sure she is ok :(
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8 Month - wakes up after 5 mins and inconsolable night crying
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bembridgebabe · 04/09/2020 11:40
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