Hi everyone, first time mom and desperate for some help. 10 week old babe in good routine for daytime naps - swaddled, sleeps in bassinet, sound machine, pacifier, able to self-settle quite well. He manages two naps (morning and midday) well, late afternoon more difficult. Evening nap can be a challenge, but not always. Real problem is this: the past week settling him down for the night has become a nightmare. I watch for his sleepy cues and have moved bedtime forward to 6.00 to meet them to try to avoid putting him down over-tired. He’s definitely getting tired when we start evening routine. He’s becoming so fussy so quickly, even though he’s fed, clean, relaxed when I put him down, and then hysterical. I am cycling through every kind of intervention from shushing him, turning up sound machine, replacing his pacifier, putting my hand on his chest, rocking him gently, picking him up, eventually turning to putting him on the breast again even when I know he’s not hungry. That often works and he might get dozy, but I as soon as I put him down he’s going nuts again. And the breastfeeding isn’t calming him every time like it would during the day or even as it would have just a few weeks ago. I am losing my mind, it’s taking over our evenings as my husband and I take it in turns trying to comfort him. This goes on and on until midnight, 1am, 2am... Have also tried leaving him for short periods (a couple of min tops) to see if he can settle himself but he’s too worked up - goes from nought to 100 in a minute, and I feel like he’s too small to let him cry it out. I’m sure he’s not sick - no temperature, no appetite issues, happy and calm all during the day. It’s not gas, that was a problem a few weeks back and it passed. Any thoughts would be very welcome. Feeling so fraught and desperate this week, not to mention exhausted.
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