I know there's lots of threads on this. But I thought I'd start a new one anyway.
DS is 8 months and not a good sleeper. In the day he's usually OK (sleeps half an hour to an hour in the morning, and has a 2 hour nap in the afternoons), but still wakes at night. I need more sleep, and I also want him to feed better in the day so I'm planning some drastic action.
I've had to do a little bit of sleep training in the day and found that "controlled crying" a la GF doesn't work, and neither does the pick up, put down method because he always cries louder and harder when I go into the room. So I'm toying with the idea of just leaving him to cry. Maybe shouting to him so he knows I'm there. Is that cruel? I figure that whatever works the quikest will be the kindest in the long run, but what does everyon else think?
Also, (and bear in mind here that we're on a Spanish timetable so dd sleeps from 9pm to 9am and I'm aiming for 9pm to 8 or 9 with ds) he always wakes between 4 and 6am and then sleeps and dozes until getting up time. He wakes other times usually as well, but what if he wakes up andthen screams till breakfast time? I usually just feed him in bed and doze with him (because I find that if I don't he often just stays awake)
He seems to need less sleep than dd so should I make "breakfast time" earlier, perhaps?
Finally on a similar subject, today he refused to sleep at nursery, came home "fried" (as they say in Spanish) and is still crying in his cot as I write - I've been in twice so far. Should I wait and see if this is going to be his new "routine" before attempting night sleep training?
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SenoraPostrophe · 27/09/2004 14:10
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