Hi I am hoping someone can help me please. My 8 month old is awake all night . Never been the best sleeper ( but 1-3 wake ups and a feed I can deal with) this is now a lot more .
Within half an hour of being asleep he wakes up! Then hourly until we go to bed at 11 then he is up all night and we have to bring him into bed with us otherwise he just cries in the cot .. we feed him and he either has the bottle and still doesn't go back off or doesn't want the bottle.
We introduced a dummy at 6 months when I stopped breastfeeding and sometimes just putting that back in works but mostly it doesn't.
We are terribly sleep deprived and often the only way for him to sleep is by lying on top of me facing outwards .
He loves food has good 3 meals a day. He doesn't have much milk it is always offered but he refused breast at 7 months and has always been fussy with formula a typical day for us :
Wake at 7- ( but as I say awake on and off all night ) porridge and finger food only make a bottle it 8 will have about 3.
Nap within 2 hours of waking 9-10 ish
Bottle offered again 8 but takes about 5 at 11.
Lunch 12 ish
Nap 1-3 bottle offered on waking takes about 2
Evening meal 5 ish
Bed for 630-7 with 8oz bottle which he does take
Sometimes this varies as he may wake a little earlier or later but it's generally nap 2 hours after waking for 1 hour and second nap 3 hours after that one for 2 hours . And then bed 3/4 hours after that
Is there something wrong with routine ? Or is it just a phase / separation anxiety setting in. He does look for me during day if someone else holds him which is fairly new thing and really doesn't like being put down I have always carried him around and for first 2 months of his life he could never sleep in cot always on me. I thought we had cracked it with better sleep but I am struggling to function on this broken sleep partner is going through it too we both up all night trying to settle him. He is at work during day and I go back to work January dreading it because in my job I need to concentrate a lot and I worry how I will cope I am having terrible symptoms of sleep deprivation because of being so run down. I recently had a lymph node infection and have itchy scalp thin hair I am also walking into things as I am so tired
Any help would be much appreciated
I do have MIl and DM but they live one hour away and only visit to see baby in between his naps they do not offer any practical support with housework and watching him while he naps for me to nap .. they go home when he naps . I can't really rest during his naps as he often wakes up during his 2 hour one half way through and I have to rock pram. He can't self settle is rocked to sleep
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bubs80 · 09/11/2019 09:20
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