After weeks of hard work, we had weaned ds off the dummy and got him to settle for all og his naps with minimal shhing and patting. It had even got to the point where I could lay him down, leave the room and 5 mins later he would be asleep. My God, he had even started going through the night!
Then DH decides to wean the swaddle. Ok his eczema had improved, but I was still cautious... So I told DH that if he was going to do it, HE could do it.
Lo and behold Ds is asleep in about 10 minutes, with no crying! He woke for his late feed, which DH does anyway, and again he settles in about 5 minutes! I couldnt believe it. Anyway, not quite so good for me when he woke at night, but hey ho...
One week on (for which DH was off for the first 4 days, so helping me out), Ds is waking in the night and NOT settling for an hour or so. I am exhausted. So I ask DH how come he can always get him to settle so quick. Has he the magic touch!
NO, HE ROCKS HIM TO SLEEP EVERYTIME!!!!
So no wonder I can no longer put him down awake, and he screams for hours in the night. HE wants to be Rocked to sleep!
After ALL of that work getting him to sleep independently. He is now reswaddled and won't go to sleep unless rocked. For EVERY nap!!!
how do we get past this without cc?
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I am soooooo annoyed with DH. Sorry, long rant.....
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ratfly · 09/08/2007 19:04
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