Hello, I wonder if anyone has any advice. I’m at the end of my tether. My lo has never been a good sleeper, and I’ve resorted to co sleeping and feeding to sleep to keep my sanity.
He used to sleep for a couple of hour stretches (if he was in with me - less if he’s in his own cot) which was tiring but manageable. The last few weeks have been really difficult, I don’t know why but he’s now waking every hour and the only way I can settle him is to feed to sleep. I’m absolutely exhausted and I know something has to change but I don’t know what to do.
I’ve tried to teach him to self settle, but he just gets more and more worked up. If he’s put into his cot without being fast asleep he just cries, no matter if I sit with him and shush or keep a hand on him. He gets more and more worked up until I pick him up. I’m now having to go to bed with him at 7.30 and then get him to sleep by lying (in an uncomfortable position) next to him - and then do the same every time he wakes up in the night.
For daytime naps I have to take him out in the pram or get into bed with him and feed and cuddle him to sleep.
I’m absolutely exhausted and I’m worried it’s affecting my relationship with my baby and with my husband. I feel like I’m failing everyone - I should have taught him to self settle by now but I just can’t seem to do it.
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6 month old - how to stop feeding to sleep and co sleeping
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ToftheB · 13/06/2018 01:51
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