Please help me to stop bfing my 21 month old. I am done in, physically and mentally. She still wakes several times a night, will only be fed back to sleep and I can't cope any more. I've got till the end of the easter holidays to sort it out because me and my partner are too exhausted to do it while we are at work and we both have two weeks off at Easter.
She screams to the point of making herself sick if she is told no boob, nothing else works and my partner can't get her to go to sleep at all. I feel like I might have to just sleep elsewhere for a few nights so she has no choice but I will feel terrible and I don't want her to think I've abandoned her.
I don't want to co sleep as she feeds even more but she does end up in our bed most nights at some point as I just get to the point where I can't take any more and need sleep. This has only been happening for about a couple of months as she was poorly with chicken pox and ended up in our bed a lot but now she wants to sleep in it every night. She has always woken a lot though, no matter where she sleeps.
I think the worst thing is that it's all down to me feeding her. No one else can get her to sleep because she associates it so strongly with being bf to sleep.
For her naps she has to go out in her buggy for a few minutes and then she falls asleep but obviously we can't do that at night.
Please help me, I am losing my mind.
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OhWhatAPalaver · 19/03/2018 02:38
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