First of all this is dc2 so I am under no illusions that sleep is easy, we had our challenges with sleep first time round but nothing compared to this.
Dc2 is now 5 months and every night it takes over an hour to settle. Every wake up in the night is much the same. He will fall asleep feeding then the moment he's moved the screeming starts. We've tried hard to disassociate feeding and sleeping but dummy/white noise/ shhh-pat/rocking singing and multiple combinations of the above have not helped.
For a long time he would only sleep on me and, being so shattered I have fallen asleep while he's been feeding on multiple occasions (I did get one blissful week when I was putting him on his tummy, but then had a freak out about sids so stopped).
I have been making a concerted effort to stay awake for the last few weeks and on the whole this has stopped but he's waking 4-5 times in the night and as it's taking so long to settle him the lack of sleep is now staring to take its toll and I don't know if I can manage it much more.
He's properly crying/screaming not just grizzling and I'm finding it so distressing that I dread the evenings. DH is ready to try cc but I just can't face it, surly there must be another option?
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Redhead79 · 09/01/2018 19:59
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