DS has woken once a night for a bottle of milk for about a year. Aside from that, he goes down fine, and sleeps til 7 in his own cot/room.
However...Sleep started getting really messed up in the last few months following a cold or two and we've sadly found ourselves this Xmas at the stage where he has been waking every hour and needing me/bottles to resettle. He's not been a happy bunny and I am exhausted.
I am sure the bottles are now waking him, and not doing him any favours, so we are on night 3 of controlled crying/in and out comforting - but no milk.
Each night he has worken at about 11ish and not gone to sleep until 3.
He's screaming for about 3 mins then quiet for 5 mins then screaming again.
Awful heartwrenching cries of mummy mummy.
It's hard to know whether to leave him.for longer gaps or go in more or just bloody stay with him as my heart is crying out to do. I don't want to make it worse for him though, or prolong the process by going in and confusing him. I do believe he can learn to sleep without milk and on his own in his cot.
Argh. Fucking sleep training. I think it's ok for him... but maybe it is flooding his poor little brain with cortisol. I just hate this doubt that maybe it is a cruel awful thing to
do.
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21 month old, cold turkey from bottles during night, horrendous, please help!
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Hidingalion · 30/12/2017 23:21
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