I losely follow the 234 routine with my DD. Our day looks something like this:
6.15 - wake and bf
7.30 - breakfast
8.45 - nap. She usually sleeps for an hour and 20 mins. Sometimes longer. She goes from awake to asleep in cot (I sit by cot).
From whatever time she wakes up I then put her down 3.5 hrs later for her second nap.
On a good day she then naps for 1.5 hours and goes to bed for the night 4 hours after waking from second nap.
I feed her 2 snacks and 3 meals over the course of the day. Basically a snack when she wakes from a nap and then a meal about 1 hr before her next nap or bedtime. She has one more bf before bed (bf, bath, into pjs, lullaby, cot).
All going well she'll go to asleep from awake at bedtime in cot (again I sit by cot).
However, often that second nap is really short (always 30-40 mins if in pram / sling) but often the same length if in cot. Our day then goes to pot as she's up too long before bedtime, gets massively overtired and ends up being rocked to sleep. That's not the end of the world (she sleeps through usually - although often wakes a couple of times before 10 pm) but it's getting harder to do as she gets heavier. She screams bloody murder if I leave her in the cot - no matter how much in cot comforting I do. I have never left her to cry. She doesn't have a dummy.
I don't have a set bedtime as such but if she wakes from her second nap at 2, I just struggle to get her in the cot for 6. And I think she also can't cope with a 4 hour awake period if she's only been asleep for 30 mins.
A lot of this might be my fault - I do like to take her out for the day and this often means she has second nap in pram or sling.
So, sorry for rambly post but my questions are:
- what do I do when her second nap is too short?
- occasionally she wakes before 6.15. How's best to handle this?
- occasionally she wakes after less than an hour's sleep from her morning nap. This also throws the day off. How should I handle it when this happens?
Thanks for reading. Again sorry if anything isn't clear. Really grateful for any advice.