Dd is 4.5 weeks. I’m not sure what’s going on with her sleeping and eating.
During the day she reliably sleeps three hours at a time. Night is a disaster: Evening feed around 19.30, bottle of formula when she next wakes at 21.30-23.00. Then she’s up again for a feed at 1.30-2.30, which can last over an hour, sometimes much longer. She’s then up again an hour later (another hour long feed), then up again an hour after that, and we’ll maybe get a longer two hour stretch of sleep towards morning.
During the day feeds are also very long - I think one cracked two hours earlier this week. This length of feed only started last week, they were shorter before. She’s awake through these feeds.
I went to a BFing group yesterday. They suggested that she was likely comfort sucking a lot of the time. Her latch is fine. Her weight is very good.
I’m aware that her kind of night pattern isn’t typical - a straw poll among friends suggests that one or two more evenly spaced wakings is more normal at this age. It’s also very hard going for me (and my nipples!). I have tried tonight to only pick her up in response to a full cry, not whingeing or grumbling. She was up at 01.30, at first with a gradual non-escalating cry that didn’t sound like her hunger cries. I wanted to see if she’d go back to sleep. When the cries became normal hunger cries I latched her on. Ate, seemed to fall asleep quickly. Put her down, she woke up in minutes, same happened again. She’s now on me eating for the third time since 01.30. She’s just come off after minutes, now sleeping onmy arm.
NB I’m not trying to train her or anything, she’s far too young, I just don’t know what the hell I’m doing.
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EssentialHummus · 11/10/2017 02:51
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