My DS has never been a great sleeper and we've been through lots of issues with sleep since day 1 but after another night of waking hourly things can't go on like this and I just do not know where to start to fix things.
He goes down to bed between 7-7.30pm and wakes up happy and ready to play somewhere between 6am and 7am but during the night he wakes 9 or 10 times (I've been logging it for the last month!). It's often as if he is struggling to get comfy and will scream until he is breastfed. He will not settle for DH and just gets increasingly distressed at any attempt to settle him which isn't breastfeeding. He used to take a dummy but has refused it ever since he had a throat infection back in July. As soon as I feed him he feeds for 10 minutes and settles right back down.
Our biggest issue is that he is just not interested in solid food in the slightest. Still. I offer three meals a day, I've tried purees and finger foods and everything is just rejected. He might suck on a bit of cucumber or he might eat a single Ella's pouch across a day but nothing significant or calorific. He's also VERY active in a day so I am sure he's hungry and all he's getting is breastmilk. Because of this I have not wanted to attempt to night wean as he's definitely not getting enough calories in the daytime so I don't want to leave him distressed and hungry. He's always been a snacker, will breastfeed for 10 mins and then refuse more, day and night. The same goes for solid food, he shows a mild interest for 5 minutes and then clamps his mouth shut and throws everything on the floor. I have tried offering food all day long to increase calorie intake, and I've also tried spacing the feeds out so that he's hungrier and takes more, nothing has worked. I think he has a sensitive stomach, he's always been prone to tummy aches, diarrhoea and terrible gas and we will always have a bad night if he tries a new food too late in the day. He gets bad gas during the night and often wakes up screaming and uncomfortable until he is able to fart and go back to sleep!
During the daytime he has two naps; one at 9-9.30 for approx 1hour 20 mins and then the same again at about 2pm, often in his buggy but will also nap in cot or in the car. If he sleeps in the cot he is always breastfed to sleep which I know is a terrible habit but I'm not sure how to break it, now that he is refusing the dummy he just won't calm down with anything else that I've tried. Two weeks ago he slept for 6 hours straight one night so I know that he can do it, unfortunately that was very much a one off and we're back to hourly wakings. Please help! I'm sure I'm missing something obvious in my sleep deprived fog!
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Where do I start to fix my 10 month old's sleep issues?
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CatSneeze · 26/09/2017 08:57
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