Hello,
I've written here before about DS's sleep. He is nearly 13 months and has never slept through (or come close really). He is rocked to sleep (after bath, story, breastfeed) and put in his cot where he settles fine for the initial part of the night (usually around 7pm to 10pm). He has a dummy and sleepytot to which he is quite attached.
He will then wake and want to breastfeed. After this he will usually resist going back in the cot so we often co-sleep from that point on. He generally wake a further 2 times (between 1 and 2 and between 3 and 4) he is up for the day between 5 and 6. When he wakes he won't resettle until breastfed.
Any attempts to get him to settle in the cot from awake result in lots of tears and him physically fighting to get up and reaching for me through the bars. He will not even lie down.
I have tried night weaning but he was distraught and still awake at 2am after waking at 10pm so it seemed to me that he was not ready and we decided to wait a couple of months before trying again. In addition I am returning to work (part time) in a couple of weeks and I felt this wasn't a good time to remove a source of comfort for him.
I'm not keen on sleep training or with anything that causes more than very minor crying.
With this in mind I think our only option moving forward is to sidecar a cot to our bed in an attempt to very slowly get him used to it whilst still providing the closeness/comfort he is clearly looking for. We have resisted doing this until now as our room is simply not big enough and we will have to completely rearrange who sleeps in what room and relocate half our furniture to get make it work. We will also have to buy a second, smaller cot.
How do people make a sidecar cot work? I'm concerned that he could wake up and crawl out of the cot if we leave him in it? But if we put him to sleep in his current cot in his room I'm not sure we'll be making much progress? What do people do about naps?
I was planning on getting him to settle in the sidecar cot and then slowly reduce the amount of support I give to him with this (over weeks or months not days) has anyone had success with this approach?
Any advice or experience welcome!
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Sunshinegirl82 · 23/07/2017 10:58
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