Don't even know what I'm after ladies...probably just some moral support/encouragement....or told to get a grip and get on with it?....or maybe a bit of both 😕
DS is now 8months and basically I've had no sleep for 5 months now...had some minor success when we night weaned where he was actually staying in bed roughly 8-6 but with half a dozen dummy inserts...but it was short lived 😭 We are back to the hourly wakes all night long and up for the day at 5:30....
Just feeling like I can't do it anymore (although clearly have no choice!)...even 3 year old daughter is asking why I'm sad. DH is neglected (although not complaining and tries to help). I've fallen out with my mum after her numerous unhelpful comments such as "it's the breast feeding" "it's your own fault for not leaving him to cry when he was younger" etc etc you get the idea. 😞
....will it just get better??? I feel psychologically I might be better to just admit defeat and accept he doesn't sleep and stop trying? I.e. Keep him up with us until we go to bed then co-sleep?...but neither DH or I really want this in the long term.
I'm back to work in 6weeks and honestly don't know how I'm going to cope. Sorry this is a very me me post and I know I should be happy with lovely home, DH and 2 children but the chronic sleep deprivation is really affecting my mood and clarity of thought 😢 My only saving grace is he naps well in the cot during the day 🙏🏻
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susannaR · 01/07/2017 11:05
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