Our littlest boy (ds2) is 17 months. He is not and never has been a good sleeper. Due to the trouble we had with ds1 needing rocked to sleep for hours, ds2 has been put to bed awake from day 1 and goes to sleep really well, for nap and night time, in this respect we have done quite well. However he wakes up every single night without fail, has probably only slept through maybe 5 times in his life. Recently he has started waking for milk (which we still give him) then being either awake for several hours, or wanting more milk. Dh gave him three bottles in the night the other night, which is obviously having a knock on effect on his eating. He points to the door and screams wanting to go down for milk. Dh and i take it I'm turns to be 'on duty' and we have a spare bed in ds's room so the other one goes in there to sleep.
Last night ds woke at 2, had milk and then I brought him to our bed. I lay next to him while he cried for 2 hours. Not continuously, but he wasn't asleep, was tossing and turning and eventually fell asleep after 2 hours.
I want him to stay in his own bed, there is no way he needs 18oz milk in the night. He can self settle as he proved at bedtime and last night. Am I awful to consider controlled crying in this situation? Rocking him wouldn't work because he just wants to go downstairs. I am tempted to say Saturday night is the night, I will sit in his room or outside while he cries if necessary. I don't know if he's too little for CC but I think he needs a diet of 'no contact' method as seeing us makes him want to get up. We have allowed this situation to happen because it was sort of working, but now it isn 't and I think we need to bite the Bullet.
Any advice?
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thenewaveragebear1983 · 03/03/2017 14:05
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