DD has never been a great sleeper but is now staying awake until at least 9pm every night. If she's alone in her room she cries and works herself up. My DH works evenings so this is tricky for me as I can't get the house tidied before I go to work the next day without leaving her in bits / getting very little sleep myself.
She's 21 months old. She is asleep by 10pm, wakes around 1230-2am for a couple of hours, up around 7am. Naps for 1-1.5h (i or nursery wake her) starting at 1230.
The night wakes are exhausting too.
She goes down for her nap beautifully - was thinking about dropping it but she seems genuinely exhausted and it's the only chance I get to clean etc. Don't know.
Have tried: controlled crying (awful, she works self up and is hysterical), music before bed, snacks before bed, pick up put down (fine , can now get her in cot), gradual retreat (fine until she can no longer see me, then all hell breaks loose). No tv for at least 2h before bed (bath time 730, in bed at 8 tho have tried much earlier and much later to no avail). About 30 mins of tv a day. Tried dimmed lights and hushed voices before bed etc since Jan.
She eats fine, home cooked stuff mostly. is generally developing fine, is at nursery 3 days and with me / DH for the other 4 days a week. Seems happy in the day. Don't think she's teething.
Happy if this is some sort of phase but been going on for over a month now (the 2hr plus night wakes since before Xmas) and it's gradually breaking my work life and relationship. Any ideas gratefully received. Thanks.
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BunloafAndCrumpets · 18/02/2017 21:57
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