Hi everyone, really hoping to get some advice here. DS has just turned 4mo and, since Christmas, his sleep has been deteriorating. Before Christmas, he would go down at 7:30/8ish, wake for a feed at around 1am, again at 5am then sleep until around 7. So far so good...there were even two nights he only woke once. Bliss! Since Christmas, however, things have gone seriously downhill. He returned to 3 feeds a night, then moved to waking every 2 hours to now...which is literally waking every 45 mins (apart from his initial sleep at 7:30ish when he'll sleep for 2 hours, waking after 2 hours on the dot). We have a Ewen the Sheep and the white noise helps him settle. Other times, he doesn't and becomes upset so I pick him up as soon as he is upset and give him a cuddle, which helps him get back to sleep. Other times, usually later in the night, nothing seems to work and I have to let him sleep on me after a feed on his boppy pillow.
A dummy works to get him to sleep during the day for naps accompanied with white noise. I have to hold it in his mouth as is instantly spat out. This also works to get him to sleep initially when going down in the evening but does not work during the night. He clamps his lips together and won't allow me to put it in his mouth, becoming distressed and thrashing his head from side to side. I don't want to make it a battle and ruin the day time nap success with a dummy!
DS has approximately 4 naps during the day lasting 30mins - 1hr generally. These are in the pram, car or in his carry cot with white noise/dummy. He usually finishes his last nap at 5pm then into bed at 7pm. I try to make sure he is not awake for more than 2 hrs during the day. His bed time routine is bath at 6pm followed by jammies and some soothing songs then into sleeping bag in the darkened room and a final feed, when he usually falls asleep at the boob.
I am sure it is relevant that DS has also been diagnosed with reflux and is prescribed 1ml renitadine 3x daily. This does not seem to have any impact and he is sick regularly throughout the day. He is nonetheless gaining weight and has actually jumped from 75th centile to 75th/91st. He is EBF and tends to feed around every 2 hours, every 3 hrs during the night. DS also regularly seems to be troubled by passing wind and I have no idea what to do about this as it clearly causes him pain and wakes him up during the night. Finally, the renitadine caused constipation so he is now given lactulose as and when required. My concern about returning to GP is that more meds will be given that mess up his poor digestive system more than it already is.
OK, I think that's everything! If I am doing anything wrong, please please tell me! I just want the wee man to be happy and he just seems unsettled most of the time although wants to smile and laugh. If it's normal to be waking every 45mins, then I will suck it up and hope for more sleep in the future. Sorry for the essay...
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DreamsOfWaves · 13/02/2017 18:48
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