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but what about sex? what do you do if you co-sleep?

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kiskidee Tue 27-Feb-07 13:10:08

Or Ten other reasons to cosleep.

Then there’s that other thing a bed is associated with—sex. The first question that family bedding parents get is almost always, "What about sex?" Family bed or no, having sex after kids isn’t really a problem—finding time for sex is. In fact, many cosleeping parents, like us, have found that family bedding just makes your sex life more inventive. If the kids are in the family bed, well, that means they aren’t in the living room, bathroom, kitchen, guest bedroom, hallway, on top of the fridge... you get the idea. When you family bed, you have to use your imagination to sustain your sex life. And this is a bad thing? Years after the wedding and a few kids down the road, most parents could use a bit of inventiveness in their sex life. In the bed, under the sheets, lights off, same position—that can get old and boring.

... and i am not telling what i do.

gingerninja Tue 27-Feb-07 13:49:40

We actually find it harder to do it where there isn't a cat giving us a disapproving look.

cruisemum1 Tue 27-Feb-07 14:02:26

not co-sleeping but happy not to have sex atm!

FioFio Tue 27-Feb-07 14:03:44

Message withdrawn

kiskidee Wed 28-Feb-07 08:32:49

the disapproving cat would make me enjoy it even more!

morningpaper Wed 28-Feb-07 08:38:19

We have lots of sex in the shower

When the other spouse downstairs giving the children breakfast

I've NO IDEA how we are supposed to do it in the same room at the same time

How we had TWO children still amazes me

kittylette Wed 28-Feb-07 08:52:26

in the livingroom before we go to bed,

but cosleeping isnt what we want my sons have decided thats what happens

funnypeculiar Wed 28-Feb-07 09:03:55

Our approach - have baby who goes to bed in own cot & joins you later - comfortable sex in bed, and baby cuddles ... best of both worlds

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