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Hi all,
My 18wo DS has been cluster feeding from around 6pm until he goes to sleep around 10/11pm for weeks now. I'd love to have a bit of an evening - am absolutely exhausted from the constant feeding at the end of a long day! Also my dinnertime is stressful as I have to leave him to prepare and eat dinner (about 15 minutes) and he ends up getting upset as the mobile can only entertain him for so long! DH works long hours so is rarely around to help at this time. He does take DS for 3 nights a week though, which is fab, using my expressed milk.
The nap issue is I am unsure whether he should have a 3rd nap after 4pm. He's got pretty consistent in napping around 10/11 am and 2/3pm for around 1 1/2 hours.
We want him to fall asleep around 7pm, so we try to keep him awake after his pm nap (but don't always succeed and he sometimes has a 3rd brief nap).
However he rarely naps 3 times and this means he is awake for many hours until he finally has had enough milk and goes to sleep. This results in him getting overtired and he gets really cranky and upset as we keep him up through his tired periods 😐 (which I hate doing - feel like we are torturing him!).
Any ideas about what to do? Should we let him have a 3rd nap in case sleep begets sleep? Am concerned that if he does have another nap, he will fall asleep even later... One school of thought says keep him up and he should fall asleep for the night 4hours after his 2nd nap (we wish!) and another says do 3 naps a day 😐.
We've tried giving a bottle of BM and / formula which he ingests quicker than just bf but this hasn't made a difference and he still wants to feed until super late.
Any ideas? Sorry this is so long! Thanks for reading it 😊.
Best wishes,
Beth
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Bethan2 · 18/01/2017 21:05
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