I could really do with some advice as to how to get my 8 month old to sleep. Current bedtime routine is breastfeed to sleep in darkened bedroom and try to place in cot then run to freedom. The problem after the feed this takes between 1 to 2 hours to achieve as she wake up when being put down and needs to be rocked back to sleep and cuddled til she's in a deep sleep and then try again. This invariably takes numerous attempts averaging two hours. I'm really fed up with it I get very little evening hardly see my DH as one of us is upstairs going through this rigmarole.
She has never been a good sleeper and I've read about 8/9/10 month sleep regression but I don't think it's that as she's never had a good standard to regress from.
My concern is that I shouldn't be rocking her to sleep at this age as she needs to learn to fall asleek by herself which she can't do at all and I've no idea how to get her there. Tried leaving her to cry for a few mins then going in and patting/sushing but she gets really hysterical and takes ages to calm down. She goes from being put down asleep to sat up crying in about a min and can't soothe herself. It's exactly the same daytime naps.
My DS was so easy. Had a bottle and put down awake with his dummy and off to sleep by himself within a few mins from 13 weeks. Tried to get her to take a dummy from newborn up to a couple of months but she wasn't having any of it. I have no idea what to do. DH won't do cry it out. Am worried if we keep on like this she'll never learn to settle herself.
Sorry for the essay. If you've got this far does anyone have any ideas?
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Nzou1050 · 13/01/2017 21:43
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