I guess like a lot of (most?) co-sleepers I never intended to co-sleep I just don't know how you breastfeed half the night without doing it.
We used to have a next to me crib which I found a bit useless and the baby was almost always in with me anyway. He's too big for that now (6m) and we have a proper cot bed near our bed.
I don't want to take the side off the cot bed because it doesn't line up with our mattress very well and also because I do put him to bed in the cot and he sleeps while we have dinner / watch TV etc, so he can be alone for a few hours.
Once he stirs the first time I generally bring him into the bed. Some nights I find awful because he'll feed every 1-2 hours but also get windy so I'm up rocking and burpring half the night. On a "good" night I can just comfort feed for a few seconds every hour or two and he'll sleep next to me, and we both get some sleep.
The thing is I am struggling to understand where I should be putting the baby?
Inbetween me and DP I like the most although I know you're not supposed to. I don't like sleeping with him on the side of the bed.. I cramp up if I try and sleep on my side too much and he spreads out his arms wide when he sleeps anyway and doesn't seem to want anyone crowding him so he gets half the bed ..
I tried last night having him on the side but gave him so much space between him and the side that my partner actually fell out of the other side of the king size bed. So is a guard rail the answer? Again I'm hearing conflicting messages, on the one hand some people say they need them but others saying not for use with a baby who could get trapped ..?
I also don't want to put mattress on the floor / can't.
Please tell me how you all fit in the bed!
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passingthrough1 · 05/01/2017 06:51
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