It feels to me as if everyone I know in RL uses CC (unless they have a really easy baby). All the HVs round here say that's what you should do too, even for really young babies. I'm really not a fan but when it comes up for discussion I never manage to find polite/friendly/non-confrontational ways of saying why I don't like it, so I end up saying nothing and then feeling bad that it never gets challenged. Has anyone got any good ways of gently challenging the idea of CC in everyday conversation?
The best I've managed so far is something like 'obviously babies are different and you have to do what works for you, but I don't believe in leaving DS to cry' but that doesn't actually explain why I don't. It's really hard to talk about without sounding either like I think they're evil (which I don't) or like I'm ridiculously tender-hearted and sentimental (which I don't think I am). I'm not very good at arguments anyway -too scared of confrontation.
It's not the fact that some people use CC that I'm bothered about but the way that everyone I know seems to accept it as just what you have to do. The way nobody questions it. I want it to be more up for debate in RL (I know it is on Mumsnet...)
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Polite ways of disagreeing with CC?
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Lovage · 20/02/2007 14:42
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