DD is ten months and has always been a sleep fighter! I'm looking for some advice about her naps...
She has a very loose routine as when I tried to impose a routine it was horrendously stressful and didn't work!!!
She goes to bed between 6&7pm depending on how the day has been. She "self settles" although this ranges from happily going to sleep without a peek to her whinging and crying for 20-40 mins before conking out.
she goes for her first nap about 2.5/3 hours after she wakes. She won't go any earlier and by this time she normally feeds to sleep (which she hasn't done since about 3 months old, much to my despair!!!). She will then sleep anywhere from 30 mins to 2.5 hours.
I aim for her next nap around 3 hours later. Recently we have been doing a lot of buggy naps which have been reasonably successful but I am finding very tiring and we live in a hilly area which is killing my back! If I try in the cot it turns into a bloody nightmare.... she shouts and cries and crawls around her cot. She won't be rocked to sleep. She doesn't sleep if I stay wth her. Sometimes after she's exhausted herself she will let me rock her. If I try to feed her to sleep she bites me.
I don't think she's ready to drop to one nap as she is ready to drop 3 hours after waking.
Today we couldn't do a buggy nap for various reasons. I put her into bed after 3 hours awake, she was tired and fed. She crawled around her cot crying for an hour (with me popping up to cuddle her and lie her back down) and eventually I just had to give up. I did bedtime early and she conked out feeding around 5.30, although has woken and whinged a bit since then.
I don't know what to do!!! I know this can be a phase but she's always been crap at napping and this feels like it is going on forever!! She is perfectly happy even when she is tired, she just gets more and more hyper and doesn't want to eat etc so I don't think pushing her into one nap is the answer, plus when she is overtired her night time sleep gets worse and her naps get shorter so I don't want her to end up with only 30 mins day time sleep!!!
Anyone have any advice or experience to share?! Sorry for long and rambling post
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Ten month old fighting second nap - help!
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Tumtitum · 18/12/2016 18:17
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