DS has just turned 1. Until last week I have always fed him to sleep but I have now stopped breastfeeding which he and I have both been fine with.
He has one nap per day. I put him in his cot fully awake and leave the room and he self settles without a peep so I know he is totally capable of self settling and feeding is not the only way he knows how to sleep.
Bedtime is a nightmare. On the rare occasions he didn't fall asleep feeding, and since I have stopped, it is such a battle to get him down. He cries when I leave the room. Cries if I stay in the room sitting in a chair. The only way he is happy is either me bending over the cot with a hand on his back (eventually he will go to sleep like this but it is fucking killing my back) or if I pick him up. Once I pick him up he wakes up more and the whole process starts again.
Does anyone have any advice?! I absolutely hate leaving him crying but I am running out of alternatives.
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JedBartlet · 15/12/2016 20:37
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