Hoping someone can offer some advice as I'm really starting to struggle.
This is our second DS - our first was a nightmare sleeper, always fought his naps, slept through a handful of times and only got better when we relented at 11 months, got a sleep trainer in and set a routine and let him cry it out. He then started sleeping through 12hrs every night and napping reliably.
Our second is 12 weeks and seems to be worse. He will only now settle on me, either in the sling or my arms, and won't be put down. I'm trying to anticipate when he's tired but seem to miss it the majority of the time at which point it can take a good hour to get him off. Needless to say my back and arms are absolutely killing me. He won't really sleep in the pram or car seat - if he does he wakes up pretty quickly if we stop moving. I was hoping to start getting him to self settle which, to be fair to him, he has done a handful of times quite peacefully. However, most of the time culminates in me slumping down on the sofa in agony and letting him scream on me until he conks out from exhaustion.
So, my question really is I am expecting too much? His awake time, or at least the point at which I think he now needs to start being wound down for a nap/bedtime has gone down to 35mins which seems very low. I'm trying to give him as much opportunity as possible to nap during the day but I seem to spend all my time walking and rocking him. Thankfully I have a nanny - for the time being - who helps with my first but it's not going to be long before I'm alone with both of them. I just had to do bedtime on my own with them and needless to say, the baby screamed the whole way through and is now back feeding in desperation nearly 2hrs later.
Any ideas? Thanks in advance
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Fleura · 12/10/2016 20:42
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