I don't know which it is... Possible even a developmental leap... But our 4mo who had been sleeping 8pm-ish to 4am-ish, feeding and sleeping to 6/7am-ish now wakes screaming ever 1-2h. Screaming as if she was in dire pain. We looked and there is nothing medically wrong. It's 50:50 if she will calm down or if she just cries for 30-60min no matter how much we cuddle/rock/stroke/walk her.
She uses a dummy and in the past she would spit it out in her sleep around 8/9pm and would then occasionally stir in the night, my OH would put the dummy back in (in his sleep), she would get back to deep sleep, and we would get to 3/4am and her feed (which she wouldn't cry for - she just starts to chat (and eventually cry if we don't feed her)).
There seems to be no reason or pattern or anything to go on - and with diminishing sleep it's starting to feel so bad.
Apart from 3 days ago when she had the 3rd jabs and was quiet listless and fussy (for 48h) she is a happy, smiley, chatty, wriggly baby. Always moving and talking. Since about 10w she doesn't cry much at all and we just got used to it.
How do we make it through this? Does it get back to what it was? As some say the 4m sleep regression is permanent I really can't cope with it if this is her new sleep pattern from now on. I'm on the brink of pnd as it is and without more sleep I might just tip Some sites say we need to let her settle her self but I don't know how as I refuse to let her cry it out in any way or under whatever name people put on it.
Please let me know your thoughts and advice, and give me hope xxx
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Amazonmulu · 07/10/2016 08:47
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