So my 6 month-old baby has always bed shared with us and slept pretty soundly through the night from very early on.
I used a sleepyhead pod placed on our mattress to keep her safe from falling etc and I would breast feed her to sleep at 7pm and leave her alone until 10pm.
She knew I would leave after the feed and didn't mind being alone but would sometimes wake for more feeds until around 8-8.30 and I could be up and down multiple times.
She has recently become more mobile and four nights ago I found her almost completely out of her pod and getting dangerously close to the edge of the bed. I moved her and her pod to her own cot in her room for her safety. She immediately started crying. I sat with her for two hours but she was inconsolable. She did not want to be in the cot. In the end my partner took over and she quickly fell asleep.
Despite saying I'd never do controlled crying, I decided my presence had made her worse so the next night we started her routine in her own room. Feed-story-kiss. Again she cried when I left the room so I asked my boyfriend to check on her every few minutes, gradually increasing up to 10mins. The second night it was half an hour before she slept and has been like that since.
She now sleeps through til 4am when I bring her in bed with us to feed and she goes back to sleep.
My problem is that she has now become very clingy in the day and cries whenever I leave the room. She never cried before and I'm afraid I'm damaging her and changing her personality.
I'd really appreciate any advice.
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mummyshambles123 · 08/09/2016 15:48
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