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I don't know how best to handle this.
My three year old has never been a good sleeper. As it stands, he comes in our bed during the night and wakes early in the morning (before 6). This morning he was awake from around 5 playing with a small torch whilst in our bed, which woke my 5 month old sleeping in the cot next to us. My partner had already retired to the spare room!
Because he gets up so early, he is knackered by lunchtime and I do make him nap as otherwise he becomes very tired and hard work.
When it comes to bedtime he takes ages to get to sleep and I have to sit with him for around an hour whilst he messes about and soothes himself by playing with my hair - this is another issue as I have very fine hair and I can feel him pulling it out.
I feel like I have lost leverage to make him sleep as we removed the door gate as he was climbing over it. The only other option I have is to shut his door (he can't get out) but this feels cruel. He is a very lively, caring, intelligent but strong willed and emotional little boy. I don't think leaving him to cry it out is an option I could stand - it would be quite traumatic.
I have just ordered a CD player so he can listen to stories in bed which might help, but any other ideas please?
I am sick of feeling and looking like sh1t - bags under my eyes and terrible hair! Also, I am starting to quite irritable with him and am now feeling guilty.
This is also combined with 5 month old waking a couple of times a night, which is normal.
Thanks in advance!
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3 year old sleep problems getting worse and pulling my hair out (well he is!!)
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Kismet9 · 01/07/2016 07:05
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