Hi, I'm hugely confused about this and would like guidance / ideas.
DS is 3 months and at the last weigh in the midwife said I should be putting him down to sleep when he's drowsy but awake.
Generally DS sleeps quite well - at night he does a 4-6 hour stretch, feeds and then goes back to sleep for an hour or 2, another feed and then back to sleep again. During the day he is predictable at napping - every 1.5 to 2 hours he will conk out for half an hour to an hour. For daytime, he either sleeps in the sling (which I use as a chance to go out and do stuff, and the noise seems to soothe rather than bother him) or in his Moses basket, but I have to rock him to sleep. At night he has a routine, which generally ends with a feed and then he goes to sleep. He's EBF.
When I put him in the Moses basket, he's solidly asleep and until about 2 weeks ago, during the day he would only nap in the sling or in my arms, but now is happy with being put down (so I think he's developed to that stage).
After the midwife said this, I started trying to put him down when he was drowsy but he would wake up, so I basically did pick up / put down. It was kind of working until yesterday when he cried the whole time, fell asleep from exhaustion and then woke up crying. He then fed and fell asleep on my chest which makes me think he still needs that reassurance to sleep. When my DM has looked after him, she said he wakes up as soon as I leave the room.
I'm torn (I've been googling myself crazy) as on the one hand there's all these things saying the baby needs to learn to fall asleep on his own and settle, that it's better to do it around this age than have big problems later, and others saying that's bollocks and what the baby is learning is that if they cry their mother won't come. If he wakes up during the night (mid sleep cycle) he gets himself back to sleep again so I don't think he has issues with that.
Any advice? Sorry this is so long
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Absy · 08/06/2016 17:09
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