My dd keeps waking up at 5/5.30am and it's an absolute killer!
Just to set the scene, we are first time parents, she's 10 weeks (9wks if corrected) and solely bottle fed. She was 6lbs and now weighs 11lbs, always had a good appetite. She's a really happy and chilled little thing, and I think dh and I are too, however the repeatedly early wake ups are really starting to catch up with us. She's always had a bedtime routine that we introduced when she was 2 weeks old (and dh went back to work) where she'd have bath, bottle and bed by 7pm, regardless of how many times she'd wake in the night.
I know it's not the most popular, but I am a lover of routine, so we're doing Gina Ford. Sorry in advance for all the detail... We wake her/she wakes about 7ish, has bottle, nap 9-10, another bottle and goes down 12ish-2ish (often disturbed and then I have to wake her), another bottle and then naps 4-5pm, another bottle and at 6pm bath, bottle and bed, in bed by 7ish and if she hasn't fallen asleep having her milk she usually settles herself and is out by 8 latest. Dh wakes her at 11pm for dream feed and then she goes down until 4am (until recently was 3am so we consider this a feat!!!). The problem starts with the 3/4am feed (and has been for about 5 weeks) - more often than not she's isn't tired after feeding, so I let her kick around for 10-15mins on her mat after changing her and then usually she'll go down at 4.30ish. She will then wake up an hour later really crying and in a state. We'll repeatedly go in and pop her dummy in, but she'll kick off every 15-30mins and eventually I just scoop her out and lie in bed with her wide awake while she sleeps on me.
This is what happens nearly every night (occasionally she goes from 4.30-7.30) but it's probably 1 night a week. We swaddle her and she doesn't tend to go to sleep with her dummy in - could it be the swaddling? She seems to like it when I do it at 7pm and 11pm?! Also she's drinking decent amounts at 7pm and 11pm (5-6ozs) - the 4am one varies (sometimes 2ozs and sometimes 6ozs).
I feel like a bit of a shit after writing all that because she really is a good little thing, but dh is wrecked for work some days and I not a natural napper so it's not like I'm catching up on my sleep in the day. Are we just being impatient, and should wait for the 4am wake up to gradually become the 5am/6am/7am? I'm a bit concerned this 5am is becoming an established wake up time. Is it the dawn chorus? Have I got a bird for a child?!
Any advice gladly taken!!! (And please excuse the essay!)
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margaritaville7 · 16/05/2016 15:45
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