Hi everyone, I'm desperate for some help with my 4 week old boy's sleep habits. I appreciate that he is still very young but am terrified of sids and introducing bad habits. Up until last week he was breastfed, and would fall asleep in my arms during the day and on the bed while being fed lying down at night. In all cases, he then would wake up if we moved him, so I would hold him during the day and cosleep at night, with him lying on his side (he would wake or curl up and resist if I tried to get him on his back). From this weekend, he has been on formula due to issues with breastfeeding latch and tongue tie. He is much happier and fuller on formula and sleeps more during the day, so it was the right decision for us. However, sleeping is now an even bigger issue, because he can't be fed to sleep due to being held fairly upright and needing to be winded (he has issues with trapped wind and we are using infacol). So now, he only falls asleep while being held upright on our chests whole we are sitting or lying. I can usually transfer him onto his back and onto my lap after 20 minutes or so, but putting him down in the crib in the bedroom or the moses basket in the lounge is still impossible, he wakes up every time. He has twice let me transfer him to the bed and has slept for 2 x 4 hour blocks on the bed between us like he used to when bf, but the other times I have had lie down with him on my chest (and him on his front). Him sleeping on his front terrifies me even more than he slept on his side, as does the fact that I fall asleep that way with him on top of me.
The problem is that he is such a light sleeper and wants to be held all the time. The health visitor just says to keep trying to settle him in the crib or basket. We have tried white noise, rolled up towel around him, my shirt in there with my smell, hot water bottle to warm sheet, feeding him on muslin and lowering him in with that so that it is warm and smells of me...
I would be so grateful for any other suggestions!
I know people like the sleepyhead but as the rolled up towel isn't working I don't think that will either. Am considering a bedside crib, but I want to see if we'll be able to wean him off sleeping on us first.
Thank you
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Leicfox1 · 27/04/2016 09:42
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