My DS is 13 months old. He has never napped consistently and has more or less always fought about going to bed.
I have sleep-trained. We managed to get bedtime down to a fine art when he was 9-10 months old, with no milk or anything involved (before that we were feeding him to sleep). Bedtime routine, into bed awake, bam, asleep. Sometimes he woke in the night and sometimes he didn't. Never any consistency either way, but bedtime was fine. Ever since Christmas he has got worse and worse and now bedtime is a disaster, and we still have inconsistent night waking.
I feel like I have tried everything. I was/have been suicidal since before Christmas because I am so worn down. I mean if he would just nap for an hour at least then I could have some time to myself. I wish I had never had him. I wish I were dead.
My psychiatrist has increased my ADs and also prescribed me some sleeping tablets so I have had a couple of weeks of being comatose, which has certainly made me feel more human (my DH has been seeing to DS while I've been out of it), but unfortunately the holiday is over and I have to face this shit again.
Tonight we have tried something completely different - gradual retreat. I sat in a chair in his bedroom and totally blanked him. He didn't cry, just chattered and tried to get my attention for an hour before settling himself down and falling asleep. Perfect. But then he woke up screaming the house down (worse than usual, real banshee-style) and wouldn't be soothed by anyone or anything. I shut myself in the bathroom and cried after a while. I can't bear it anymore. I don't know what to do. What do I do?
Do children ever become good sleepers or am I fucked for life?
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PeaceLoveAndMincePies · 04/02/2016 23:10
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