I am finding it difficult to settle my 4 month old into any form of sleep, naps or bedtime.
Here's a little background:
She has been swaddled tightly (arms not legs) for most of her sleep since birth.
She does sleep once down (usually for long periods: naps 1-2hrs & bedtime 4-5hrs), but whether I catch her in that "magic" sleepy moment or not and get her into her routine, she starts fussing once she knows she's tired and knows that I've started her routine.
Here's a scenario that's been happening lately;
I catch her in her magic sleepy moment (usually anywhere btwn 1-1.5hrs after being awake).
I bring her to her room and attempt to read her a book and turn on the white noise in the background. Lights are lowered.
I lay her down in her crib on the swaddle and tell her it's sleepytime.
She starts to fuss and cry and roll.
I don't usually swaddle her until she's calmed down a bit otherwise I'll just have to reswaddle her properly. She's quite strong so she can bust out of the snaps if she really wanted to.
(I've even tried to NOT swaddle her and let her fuss it out a bit, but she escalates and becomes overtired and that results in a stressed out baby who skips her nap).
She just seems to all of a sudden not know how to sleep?!? It's not necessarily a sleep regression as we went through that when she was 3months old.
She can usually sleep once she gets there... which now-a-days includes;
Sometimes swaddling her after several attempts and pinning her down sorta so she'll stop fighting and "give up".
Firm bum pats which seem to settle her wails and/or rocking.
Lastly, nursing to sleep if she cannot be consoled after a period of trying all of the above.
All of the above must result in her being swaddled before she falls asleep completely as she does gets the sleep she needs best when swaddled.
I'm at a loss here. My poor baby seems to be afraid of falling asleep. I read that she just wants to be near me and I've introduced a lovely. I've tried playing with her and getting her used to being in her crib. She isn't left in a dirty diaper or is hungry. She isn't afraid of her crib. She just doesn't want to fall asleep.
I have stood over her trying to console her, I've tried picking her up and cuddling... it seems like I've tried everything to just get her to calm down and it's a battle every time.
I have tried to ramp down outdoors too, like taking her for a long stroller ride, but she has a meltdown EVERY time she gets to that point where she knows she's getting sleepy regardless of where she is. I've tried to block out light and put a scarf over the stroller too if she starts getting a bit fussy and is nearing her nap time... to avoid her being overstimulated. No dice. She will fuss and cry under there just like she does in her crib when we try at home.
HELP!!! I feel like she's being traumatized every time I attempt to put her down to sleep.
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WongGying30 · 02/02/2016 14:36
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