My nearly 6 month old had cracked it. In the past two weeks I had put him down for naps and bedtime and within 20 ish mins(sometimes less, sometimes more) he would be asleep, no tears unless something was wrong. Now he is not self settling, three days now. He has learnt to wriggle his body up to the top corner of his cot and then I have to go in and move him down. This makes him cry or cry more if he hasn't started (feel bad :()He likes to be left to it really so I think my intrusion is getting in the way but don't want him to bang his head or hurt himself. And, certainly don't want him to cry.
However, there may be other issues at work. I have to feed him in nap sleep transitions otherwise he will only nap for 30 mins(was 45 a week ago) . Has he got used to this? How do I wean him off, no tears? I have also got his awake time wrong I think. How do I follow an average awake time of two to three hours for a short napper. I have got to the point of giving up and saying ' you know what, I just can't get it right'. I outright don't understand his tired cues and that is very embarrassing.
Had got so far with the self settling and now want to cry myself. . .all that hard work down the pan. Does anyone have a similar experiences? Do you think laying him on his front will help or confuse him?
Thank u from much appreciative, serial, sleep poster x
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My self settler has given up on self settling, why oh why?
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FifiFerusha · 18/01/2016 22:02
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