Am at my wits end, feel like a complete failure and don't know where to start. DD is 19 weeks, we had a good start with her - at one point she was doing a 5 hour stretch, then a feed and then another three hours (all in her cot). However since about 11 weeks she's had a number of colds plus two lots of jabs, and her sleeping has gone to pot. As an example last night she co-slept from 7.30pm to 6.00am, with feeds at 8.30, 9.30, 12.30, 2.20, 3.20, 4.50 and 6.00. The amount of milk she will have varies from 40-90ml in one go.
Having a 3yo DS who has always been a poor sleeper, I was determined that it would be different this time, so I feel like a complete failure as a mum that we have got to this situation - we have no routine during the day or at bedtime, and Dd just naps when she falls asleep (on the bottle). Dh is self employed and looks after dh in the night, si not in a position to help with dd. I am so exhausted that I just can't see a way forward and I hate myself for being short tempered with DS. I'm clinging on to the co-sleeping as it makes me feel wanted but I know its not a long term answer.
I'm not expecting her to sleep through the night, I just want to do the right thing for DD and give her the best start in life, with a few more hours sleep making a huge difference to all of us. Please someone help me!
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ghall54 · 13/01/2016 11:41
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