Am sat crying in the car. Have abandoned DD with DH and an overtired 4 yr old DS.
She is 9 weeks and I'm exhausted.
For the first 7 weeks she had to do all her naps in arms. Sling maybe but not always.
Nights she manages the Moses basket for half the night and wakes every two hours. Not to feed every time though as she will only take 1-2oz
Has to be rocked and rocked and rocked for fucking ages before she will sleep. She will drop off and the suddenly eyes will snap open.
Screams in the car seat.
Take her for a walk in the buggy. She is wide awake for over an hour and then may drop off for 20 mins.
Seems
Constantly tired. Manages less than an hour before grumbling and acting tired again. I seem to spend all day and all night trying to put her to sleep.
Doesn't drink formula properly. I'm
Making 5oz bottles by she manages Maybe 2-3 oz at a time. Then maybe again a little after 30 mins. But acts hungry.
Sometimes screams while having the bottle. ( I think when she's overtired)
I wouldn't mind co sleeping but even that is a pain. She spent over an hour settling last night. That was after 45 mins of rocking sitting up hoping to get her in basket. I gave up and took her to bed but had another hour of fussing
I can't bear to hold her anymore. She just fusses and fusses. It's not nice cuddling to sleep. It's face rubbing all over me, legs flailing, dummy falling in and out.
She is swaddled.
Is she a high needs baby? I just don't know what to do. It's 9 and I've been trying to get her to sleep since 7. She is clearly tired but fighting it every inch.
DS used to self settle from 4 weeks! I used to put him in the basket and he would chat himself
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Seriously what kind of baby have I got? (Am typing from car as I've run out of house for fear of hurting the baby)
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crystalgall · 17/12/2015 21:09
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