My beautiful DS is a textbook high needs baby that has never taken well to doing things without me. He was a good sleeper til he hit the 4 month mark (we co slept from day one, not out of choice really just was the only thing that worked). But I'm afraid he's only getting more and more attached to me and the sleep habits just seem to regress week by week...
He likes to bf + rock to sleep at night (no form of sleep training worked on him -- strict bedtime routine, shush pat, leaving to grumble, letting cry for 10 mins, drowsy but awake is not a state he ever exists in) sometimes by DP is able to rock him albeit with protest. As soon as he's asleep and put down however he NEEDS to know I'm holding / cuddling him otherwise he jolts RIGHT awake. The worst part is that even if he is deeply asleep and I creep away, he almost immediately wakes up. I have no idea how he senses it.
This means that he will refuse to sleep at 7pm, 8pm, etc for longer than 5 mins unless I'm in bed with him with a boob ready for resettling. This is just unrealistic for me - I am a night owl, I have a shit tonne of stuff that needs doing every evening (when he's awake he requires my undivided attention also so I never manage to get anything done) and most importantly I need to spend time with DP because he's been feeling isolated from my intense "bond" with DS and admittedly I just miss spending time with my partner. I'm not asking for much, I'm not expecting my baby to sleep in his cot or through the night or whatever. I just want to not have to be bed bound from 8pm onwards. It's madness! DS now has a sleep schedule of 11pm - 11am because I tend to go to bed at 11ish. That's not normal for a baby is it?? And whenever I get up for water or to pee at like 4am DS wakes straight up!!!! I'm scared there's no end in sight to this behaviour.. Has anyone had experience with this?? I'm afraid I'm developing PND because I've lost all sense of self with my intensely high needs baby.
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6 month old intense co-sleeper won't sleep told in in bed or let me pee!!! HELP!!!!
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cosmicdancer89 · 25/10/2015 22:35
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