I have a 10 month old who is generally a good sleeper - he has two naps a day and goes to bed at 7pm, waking around 5.30am. We did the baby whisperer pick up put down around 4 months as I had let him sleep on me up until then and he struggled to settle without me. This worked and me and my husband have been pretty pleased with our selves since!
I had however been in the habit of staying in his room until he fell asleep for naps and at night. He mostly moans a bit, talks to himself and then nods off in 5-10 mins. I think I have made a rod for my own back (I hate that saying, I think my back is one big rod by now) as he can now pull himself up. So as soon as I put him down he stands up and laughs at me or tries to talk to me etc. I'm not sure what to do for the best now? We haven't done controlled crying/cry it out and I would rather not, also I am going back to work and DS is going to nursery so he's going to be a bit upset by this change anyway.
I can settle him to sleep with rubbing his chest/stroking his face etc in 10-30 minutes but don't want to get into the habit of doing this all the time and it would feel like a step back as he can self settle. Any ideas would be great xxx
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theworstwife · 07/09/2015 21:23
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