Arrrghhh!! So... Any words of wisdom would be great!
DD (first baby) is now approaching 5 months old and is a nightmare to settle, this has been an issue since the first month and I assumed it would improve but it hasn't.
If we're 'lucky' we can feed her to sleep.... Though on nights like tonight as she approaches the end of the bottle she goes inconsolably nuts in anticipation of bedtime - it took 2 hours this evening ð???ð??« and a combination of DP and I taking it in turns to rock/walk/sing to/pacify her enough to eventually fall asleep exhausted.
I spoke to a 'gentle' sleep trainer last week about feeding her to sleep (as latterly this was the issue and we could at least settle her this way) who suggested it could be attachment issues or tongue tie related given feeding issues very early on... So we started to give her the bottle pre bath (we have a pretty solid routine in place) and then to rock her to sleep to remove the feeding association however she hates being held and won't be soothed in her cot. She also won't settle in a sling which was her other suggestion...
Indeed since we tried these techniques and well and truely wound her up a few nights running she's now regressed back to being absolutely impossible to settle again so am scared these techniques have solved nothing and actually made the situation worse! She seems to be totally terrified of bedtime and nothing works.
Sorry this is rambling.... Any insight would be great, has anyone experienced this or found a solution? I am going back to work next month and the thought of coming home to this after 12 hours in the office is terrifying!
Annoyingly bought the millpond book on Amazon and the crucial pages were missing just to compound issues?!!!
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KimKarTrashian · 08/08/2015 22:12
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