Hi
I'm a first time older Mum, I have no family nearby and was a bit clueless about childcare- I thought love and instinct was all you needed...
My baby was in NICU after delivery and couldn't breast feed. I was told to feed on demand by the HV. She had horrendous reflux and would scream after feeding and only drink 1fl oz at a time- I just fed and soothed her all day. Because she was so upset I would rock her to sleep. At first she would sleep in her cooconababy mattress no prob- but that then changed ... I don't even know when. So I have never had any hands free time during the day. She screamed if put in her pram so would only settle in her sling- it killed my back.
Things got better when I put her on comfort milk- it was so much easier for her to digest than the normal Aptimil. She can now drain a bottle - but usually has 3floz at a time.
Now in the past week I have been successful in getting her into a buggy as it's more upright. She will sleep in the pram if I take her for a walk! Some progress.
The problem is that she will only sleep in a moving pram for 30-40mins. Once it's still she wakes.
She will only sleep in the car seat for motorway trips- she'll cry after 10mins if it's driving in start stop traffic.
She won't go in her cot for a nap - she will scream till she vomits.
She is 13 weeks old and still sleeps a lot during the day. She only sleeps after a feed so has a bottle rather than self soothing to sleep- I don't mind about that
The irony is that she sleeps ok at night in her cot. She wakes at 2/3 , has a feed and goes back to sleep no problem
I am desperate for her to nap in a pram/crib/ glider during the day so I can make myself lunch or the evening meal !
It doesn't seem to make any difference how much milk she has. I can put her in the pram awake, push her around the kitchen to sleep but once I stop she is awake in 5 mins and bright eyed alert! She will also nod off in her bouncer if you're gently bouncing it but wakes in 5 mins when you stop. Basically she won't go and stay asleep unless in my arms or being pushed/bounced.
She will happily sleep in my arms for 2 hours at a time- meaning Im pinned on the sofa.
Sorry for the long post- desperate for advice that doesn't include leaving her to cry.
Thank you xx
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Joan1977 · 04/08/2015 09:00
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