Hello. DD is nearly 9 months old now. She's never been a great sleeper. She currently sleeps in her own room in her cot. Up until about a month ago she was having a night feed (about 7.30-8ish), a dream feed (about 10ish) and then waking another 2-3 times a night for more feeds. We decided at 8 months old this was excessive, we were tired, and it was also impacting on her weaning (she was hardly eating anything as she was filling up on milk all night). After a chat with the HV we decided to start gradually diluting her night milk. So we went through a phase whereby when we made her a 6oz bottle we made it 5oz milk to 1oz water for 3 nights, then 4oz milk to 2oz water for 3 nights etc until a couple of nights ago when we moved over to only offering her water after her dreamfeed. The theory according to the HV is that she would gradually learn there was not much to wake up for and wake less and less. The reality is that she's waking just as much but getting her back to sleep is a nightmare now. Prior to doing this we had reached the point whereby as long as her tummy was full with milk she would normally self-settle in her cot after a feed, but now with no tummy full of milk it's regularly taking an hour or two after each wake-up to get her back to sleep with lots of crying and requiring lots of rocking etc. Then she's awake again an hour or two later and we repeat the whole process again! I don't know what to do. I'm exhausted. I hate to admit it but last night I snapped and ended up shouting at her to shut up and then bursting into tears (bad mummy).
Should I go back to giving her milk? The thing is I don't even really think she's that hungry as when we get up in the morning I usually leave it an hour or two before offering her breakfast as she's not normally hungry first thing, even without the night feeds. I think it's just a habit for her to use milk to get back to sleep. Also her eating has gotten so much better since we've dropped the night feeds (she's now having 3 proper meals a day whereas previously we would struggle to even get a few mouthfuls a day into her). However I don't think I can go on like this much longer. Should I persist given that it's only been a couple of days of only offering water? There's also the issue that she's more mobile now and she keeps getting herself 'stuck' in the cot (usually rolling onto her tummy and not being able to roll back onto her back again) so she's waking up a lot because of that too.
So as not to dip-feed I would say she naps for about 2 hours a day in the daytime usually over 2-3 naps so I don't thinks she's napping excessively.
Desperate for any advice / help. Thank you!
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Help! Should I go back to night feeding? At the end of my tether!
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KitKat1985 · 03/06/2015 08:21
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