My DS is about to turn 4 months and I've been a regular lurker on these boards since day one, usually some time in the small hours searching for answers but now I'm wondering if anyone can offer me some direct advice.
Our main problem is that if resisting sleep was an Olympic event he would be champion. I'm trying to work on getting him to self settle, he has a dummy which he does take after many weeks of rejection but it only actually helps him to nod off if he's already on the edge of sleep anyway, it's more useful at night but doesn't really help in the day. He will sleep if I rock him in my arms and shush him for ages (maybe an hour) but even then he fights like mad, flailing around and screaming before he sleeps and putting him down is difficult. Also, I want to move away from rocking him to sleep if I can. I'm trying to work on making sure he's not overtired when I try and get him to nap but it's near impossible to do. His night sleep is very hit and miss which means he's often tired right from the start of the day and although his first nap happens the easiest he normally wakes after 30 mins or so and I'm often unable to resettle him which then means he just gets progressively more tired until he eventually conks out and we start all over again. My days are often spent largely trying to get him to sleep and keep him that way and I'm finding it very draining, particularly after a poor nights sleep too.
He used to fall asleep in his bouncy chair, on the boob (now bottle fed), in the pram or in the car seat but increasingly none of this works. Sometimes it just seems that nothing will get him to sleep. I know that 4 months is a notoriously tough time for sleep but his sleep has always been pretty poor and I'm getting desperate. I'm about half way through my maternity leave and I worry that when I look back all the memories I have will be of fighting with him over sleep day and night as I'm often still too tired to do stuff during the day.
Any tips?
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Nap battles with my 4 month old
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enigmaVariations · 27/05/2015 12:05
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