DD has never been a great sleeper. She is now 2.5 and starting to attempt climbing out. Bedtimes already can involve multiple trips to her room as she just cries and yells. DH has zero patience and is rubbish at putting his foot down (PFB big time) so I'm terrified of the side coming down.
Will be installing a gate, but I know it will be a hard slog for me - DH cannot cope with the struggles goes into a full on sulk and is miserable like the world has ended if she calls out even once but won't accept that his constant changing the routine and rules exacerbates everything
Anyway, someone please give me hope and confidence. I have a 16 week DS who sleeps in the room next to hers so I'm also dreading the screaming will wake him!
When she was 12 months I say by her bed as up til that point I had fed her to sleep. Did gradual retreat over a period of time. Since then bed times have had their ups and downs. We do go through good periods where she goes down without a sound. But lately it's been screaming and crying for like 30 mins
He won't be able to do it. If I do it I'll rapid return. No talking, no explaining, no reasoning. He will engage with her constantly. Attempting to reason and explain and bargain with her. Which I feel only gives her hope and keeps our attention.