My little one is nearly 5 months old and is fully breastfed. We have got into this pickle I think because when he was very tiny was poorly and needed some surgery. All is fine now but the only way I could get him to sleep/rest from crying in pain was feeding him (sometimes for up to 2 or 3 hours at a time).
Our current bedtime routine is, books, bath and feed (aprox 1 hour). He usually falls asleep while feeding or I rock him, which was fine until recently. We do our bed time routine as usual and he is fast asleep but wakes crying soon after or won't let me lay him down, it carrys on for hours. This is a pattern im desperate to end. My little one sleeps in my bedroom in a moses basket inside his cot.
I have only just started using a grobag as he has arms like an octopus and swaddling was the only way to keep him asleep once he'd dropped off. I usually have to swop from grobag to swaddled in the middle of the night just so I can get some rest (my husband works shifts so isn't around to help most nights). My little one usually wakes every 3 hours for feeds and poops 2 or 3 times a night which means he has to be fed back to sleep.
Honestly I don't know where to begin? Should I change the routine? I don't have a clue how to lay him down and start the pattern of getting him to sleep by himself.
I don't really have many friends I can ask. I have joined a few baby groups but I have found making mummy friends hard. I don't feel brave enough to approach mums at the classes I go to. Just beginning to feel that I am stuck in a bit of a rut.
my baby is 5 months old but was one month premature, he currently weighs 12 pounds 9 oz
Any help will be really appreciated. Thank you x
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BryonyRobinson4 · 02/01/2015 18:59
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