I am having a hard time implementing the PU/PD with my 4 month old son.
After doing the bedtime routine I put him in bed, usually starts crying in a few minutes.
Then I try doing the PU/PD but have problems:
- Most of the time he doesn't calm down in my arms - what should I do? how long to let him be in my arms?
- The moment I put him back in bed (even if he calmed down in my arms) he starts crying, so do I just pick him up the moment I put him down? Or do I try rocking him for a few moments while he yells his lungs out?
Today I tried this , let him stay in crib for 1 minute then pick up for 1 minute and so on, this went on for half hour with crying non stop (!) until I gave up and nursed him to soothe him down and then put him to sleep in the carrier (which took an hour, but at least without crying...)
I must note a couple of things- a. he does not take a pacifier whatsoever
b. after feeding in the middle of the night ( usually once a night) he is able to soothe himself to sleep
Your help is much appreciated