My DD is 2.5yo and has never slept great. It got worse around 18months and we tackled it by co-sleeping. It was the only way to get us all through the night. She now has a double bed in her room. She goes to bed on her own and sleeps well until around 1am but I usually end up joining her then.
The problem is I now have an EBF 3week old too! I have been having him in his crib next to us as I was nervous of co sleeping with such a young baby especially with a toddler in the bed too. But he hates being put down.
Is there anyway to safely sleep with them both in the bed?