Hi, I am trying to get my 17 week baby to have two to three naps in the day, totalling at least three hours, which I understand is recommended. I'm putting her down awake to help her self settle, the problem is even if she's sleepy, as soon as I put her down (whether in the crib or the Sleepyhead, which we usually use for daytime naps), she starts to cry, and then scream, for anything between 10 to 45 minutes before she eventually falls asleep. When she's screaming I don't leave the room but lie next to her stroking her hand or with my hand on her chest and shushing her til she sleeps. My question is.. is this controlled crying?? Should I be picking her up and rocking her when she screams and putting her back down. I wouldn't / couldn't leave the room and let her cry but it still feels cruel lying next to her and letting her cry. When she eventually goes to sleep she usually sleeps well for at least 45 min and sometimes up to three hours! And when she wakes up is happy again. I have another couple of questions on napping but will post them on a new thread so as not to confuse matters! Any advice or suggestions on how your help your babies to nap would be welcome. I do need to get some blackout blinds as her napping bedroom is quite light which I don't think helps. Thanks
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