I have a lovely 4 and a half week old baby, however she is starting to drive myself and my husband mad! She has started refusing to sleep in the Moses basket (or indeed anywhere other than on one of us or in the car/pram) day or night.
Last night she slept soundly on DH from 7 - 11. She then had a bottle of expressed milk, 4 ounces in total. Breast feeding is going well but we're trying to do one bottle a day so that I can rest....ha! After having the bottle she was then awake until 1pm when I fed her again (breast fed this time). She wasn't crying during this time, she was just wide awake. After a 15 minute feed, she fell asleep (without burping). I held her for 20 minutes or so rubbing and patting her back and used the 'dead arm' test to check she was properly asleep before putting her in the basket. Within 5 minutes she was awake and crying, seemingly hungry again.
I fed her again (now 2am) for about 15 minutes and again she fell asleep without burping. I held her upright for 30 minutes while she slept rubbing and patting her back. Tried to put her down at 3am. Almost immediately she started making grunting and growling sounds (like she's clearing her throat) and was writhing about. She was awake minutes later and although I tried to comfort her in the basket, she started to cry.
She was showing hungry signs again so I fed her at 4am for about 15 mins. She fell asleep, same pattern occurred as above. Husband decided to let her sleep on him from 5.30am and she slept like a log!! She was still asleep when he got up for work at 7.15am. She slept in our bed on her back with me watching until 8.30am - quashing my belief that she just doesn't like sleeping on her back (she did make the occasional grunting/growling sound but remained asleep). This morning she fed, fought her tiredness and has fallen asleep in the sling.
My questions are:
- Is using the sling in the day making her clingy? It's the only sure fire way of getting her to sleep but should I keep trying to put her in the Moses basket (or carrycot)?
- Could introducing the bottle feed in the late evening be causing a problem? Would it be better to try a bottle at another time of day?
- Should we stop her from sleeping on hubby in the evening? This is the only time I sleep but i worry that allowing her to sleep for hours on end might be creating a rod for our own backs.
- should I try and interrupt this long evening sleep to "feed her up" for the rest of the night? She'd quite happily sleep for 4 hours or more at this time but then hubby ends up getting no sleep at all
- Should I wake her for feeds regularly in the day to help "feed her up"?
- Is it worth trying out gimmicks such as a Robopax rocker or will this only work in the short term?
Apologies for all the questions but I'm extremely paranoid about creating bad sleeping habits. However I'm also worried that hubby and I aren't getting any sleep at the moment!
Any advice you could provide would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks